Day 7- To the ex

Oh my I hesitated a little, but hello there. I think you've been doing pretty fine? Well I'm alright too. You sent me a really random message that day, it kinda freaked me a little.
Sometimes I wonder what actually could have been of us if we continued. But as of now, I think it's not a great idea. I believe it's impossible to be like how we used to, but it's fine.
Sometimes when people ask me if I've gotten over you, I stop and think, what does it mean to have gotten over you? That I can continue life as it is? Of course not, something important has been ripped from you. What you do is pick yourself up and move on. And create newer pieces, and fix a whole new portion over the empty hole. I don't think anyone ever gets over what happens with exes.
We definitely can get on with life, it's just whether we choose to face it with more faith in what is held in store for us, or wallow in misery in that things can never be the same again.
Then again as you see it, things are never the same, whether still in the relationship or not, I guess I prefer to go on and be happy. No point crying over spilt milk. Maybe things are meant to be greater with someone else, and if no one else is out there for me, I'll still be happy, I can spend the rest of my life with my mummy and daddy. And if that too, shall pass, I'll go adopt kids to torture them ,but they'll grow to love me, because it's way better than spoiling them;)
Just a thought.
I think I can safely say, that I've been happy without you, and will continue to be so. I've learn from you that over-dependency is never good, I'll try not to make that mistake again.
I lost myself in you once, I became you and I couldn't distinguish myself from us. I forgot what it is like to be selfish. And when we finally took a step back from where we were, I saw things so clearly that I couldn't bring myself to do it again when things were expected to return to 'normal' after.

I guess things are fine this way now? Each of our lives not inter-conflicting with the other.